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Kezia Noble

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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

Yeah, it is unfiltered. And that's very important because women want to have that very authentic, unfiltered conversation with a man. And it just shows that he's just, that's his truth and he's unapologetic for it.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

I think it's important. OK, so I do show guys how to bring their more appealing qualities forward and some of the less appealing qualities like keep them in the back burner. But that's more things such as not like personal achievements and things. Maybe they haven't achieved a lot in their life. Maybe they're still living at home with their parents.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

I think it's important. OK, so I do show guys how to bring their more appealing qualities forward and some of the less appealing qualities like keep them in the back burner. But that's more things such as not like personal achievements and things. Maybe they haven't achieved a lot in their life. Maybe they're still living at home with their parents.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

I think it's important. OK, so I do show guys how to bring their more appealing qualities forward and some of the less appealing qualities like keep them in the back burner. But that's more things such as not like personal achievements and things. Maybe they haven't achieved a lot in their life. Maybe they're still living at home with their parents.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

I don't say to them that you've got to cover that. It's more that you've got, because that's you, that's your reality, that's the position you're in. It's how you communicate it. So if you do anything with shame or embarrassment... then that's going to translate as I'm an ashamed person, I'm embarrassed, I'm not happy. And all these, these are the things that women don't find attractive in a man.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

I don't say to them that you've got to cover that. It's more that you've got, because that's you, that's your reality, that's the position you're in. It's how you communicate it. So if you do anything with shame or embarrassment... then that's going to translate as I'm an ashamed person, I'm embarrassed, I'm not happy. And all these, these are the things that women don't find attractive in a man.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

I don't say to them that you've got to cover that. It's more that you've got, because that's you, that's your reality, that's the position you're in. It's how you communicate it. So if you do anything with shame or embarrassment... then that's going to translate as I'm an ashamed person, I'm embarrassed, I'm not happy. And all these, these are the things that women don't find attractive in a man.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

But if you said, for instance, yeah, I don't really have a very good job, but I've chosen that because... I don't want to be on the rat race like everybody else. I look at everybody else every day, getting on the train, stuck in a little office. No way, not for me. Now, she might think, again, on paper, yeah, well, that guy going in on the train every day, he's, you know, he's got drive.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

But if you said, for instance, yeah, I don't really have a very good job, but I've chosen that because... I don't want to be on the rat race like everybody else. I look at everybody else every day, getting on the train, stuck in a little office. No way, not for me. Now, she might think, again, on paper, yeah, well, that guy going in on the train every day, he's, you know, he's got drive.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

But if you said, for instance, yeah, I don't really have a very good job, but I've chosen that because... I don't want to be on the rat race like everybody else. I look at everybody else every day, getting on the train, stuck in a little office. No way, not for me. Now, she might think, again, on paper, yeah, well, that guy going in on the train every day, he's, you know, he's got drive.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

He's going somewhere and you're just slobbing about. Sure, sure, she might think that. However, she will not think that you're ashamed or that you are trying to sort of like, get in her good books, tell her what she wants to hear. So you have that pride and that can work.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

He's going somewhere and you're just slobbing about. Sure, sure, she might think that. However, she will not think that you're ashamed or that you are trying to sort of like, get in her good books, tell her what she wants to hear. So you have that pride and that can work.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

He's going somewhere and you're just slobbing about. Sure, sure, she might think that. However, she will not think that you're ashamed or that you are trying to sort of like, get in her good books, tell her what she wants to hear. So you have that pride and that can work.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

That can work more than the guy who's doing all the right stuff, but he's deeply unhappy and he's insecure and all the rest of the stuff. It's better to have both of those things. But if you aren't, I don't say to guys, oh, pretend you've got a fancy job. just tell, like I sit down with them and go, why are you doing this dead end job? Why? Like, what's the reason for it?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

That can work more than the guy who's doing all the right stuff, but he's deeply unhappy and he's insecure and all the rest of the stuff. It's better to have both of those things. But if you aren't, I don't say to guys, oh, pretend you've got a fancy job. just tell, like I sit down with them and go, why are you doing this dead end job? Why? Like, what's the reason for it?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

That can work more than the guy who's doing all the right stuff, but he's deeply unhappy and he's insecure and all the rest of the stuff. It's better to have both of those things. But if you aren't, I don't say to guys, oh, pretend you've got a fancy job. just tell, like I sit down with them and go, why are you doing this dead end job? Why? Like, what's the reason for it?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

And a lot of the time they come up with a pretty good reason, which is I don't want to be a slave to work. I said, well, that's beautiful. That's interesting. That's wow. Okay. So you're a bit of like one of those kinds of guys. Okay. Sell it. Let's do it. You know, don't be ashamed of it. So that's the way that I try and get them to be authentic and

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

And a lot of the time they come up with a pretty good reason, which is I don't want to be a slave to work. I said, well, that's beautiful. That's interesting. That's wow. Okay. So you're a bit of like one of those kinds of guys. Okay. Sell it. Let's do it. You know, don't be ashamed of it. So that's the way that I try and get them to be authentic and

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

And a lot of the time they come up with a pretty good reason, which is I don't want to be a slave to work. I said, well, that's beautiful. That's interesting. That's wow. Okay. So you're a bit of like one of those kinds of guys. Okay. Sell it. Let's do it. You know, don't be ashamed of it. So that's the way that I try and get them to be authentic and

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)

Yeah, and it's very important to always tap into the woman's emotional buying motives rather than her rational buying motives. So again, yes, as you said, speaking with emotional language works better with women. For them, lust and attraction is not rational at all. It's purely emotional. So yeah, I agree. Just tap into the emotional narrative.