Kris Dehnert

And it's going to be a perpetual problem.

It doesn't just stop at the first one.

So it's like it's about commitment.

But if you bring it all the way back, you have to start with like –

the the why right like the reflection point why am i doing it because a lot of them and i was guilty of this and that's why i know oh i'm doing it for my family

It sounds good, right?

It's a great excuse to kick to your wife so you can just fuck off and do whatever you're doing.

But the truth is, when I really started thinking, you know, at the beginning of this summer, I just bought my partner out a year and a half ago.

This is not the time for me to just check out for 90 days, dude.

But you know what?

I made a commitment that this summer was going to be that summer.

We sat at our neighbor's house having a cocktail, and we were just laughing about it.

We're like, dude, let's do it.

This summer.

This is the summer.

And we went ham, right?

It was a commitment.

And the pain – what do they say?

Like when the pain of experiencing something becomes greater than the pain of fixing it, then you'll make the change.

There's something along those lines.