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Kute Blackson

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
390 total appearances

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Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

And so that's why we tend to control everything because if I can control everything, then I'll never be hurt ever again. And so it's so limited and it ends up limiting us. And often we end up being controlled in the drive to control. So surrender is letting go of control in a certain sense, controlling everything.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

And so that's why we tend to control everything because if I can control everything, then I'll never be hurt ever again. And so it's so limited and it ends up limiting us. And often we end up being controlled in the drive to control. So surrender is letting go of control in a certain sense, controlling everything.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

It's a letting go of trying to force and manipulate life to fit into, once again, our limited idea of how we think it should be. It's limited because... When we set goals just from the ego and the mind, we're not able to see the amazing infinite possibilities. We just see a small perspective and we get so attached to what we think we want. We get so attached to our goals, our dreams and desires.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

It's a letting go of trying to force and manipulate life to fit into, once again, our limited idea of how we think it should be. It's limited because... When we set goals just from the ego and the mind, we're not able to see the amazing infinite possibilities. We just see a small perspective and we get so attached to what we think we want. We get so attached to our goals, our dreams and desires.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

It's a letting go of trying to force and manipulate life to fit into, once again, our limited idea of how we think it should be. It's limited because... When we set goals just from the ego and the mind, we're not able to see the amazing infinite possibilities. We just see a small perspective and we get so attached to what we think we want. We get so attached to our goals, our dreams and desires.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

Like, no, it's got to be this. No, this person has to be the one. And maybe they're not. But in our effort to force something to be, we don't realize we're limiting the universe. We're limiting the infinite. We're limiting the divine. We're limiting nature. We're limiting life. And so surrender is taking the limitations off of life.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

Like, no, it's got to be this. No, this person has to be the one. And maybe they're not. But in our effort to force something to be, we don't realize we're limiting the universe. We're limiting the infinite. We're limiting the divine. We're limiting nature. We're limiting life. And so surrender is taking the limitations off of life.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

Like, no, it's got to be this. No, this person has to be the one. And maybe they're not. But in our effort to force something to be, we don't realize we're limiting the universe. We're limiting the infinite. We're limiting the divine. We're limiting nature. We're limiting life. And so surrender is taking the limitations off of life.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

It's letting go of the idea of who we think we should be, how we think life should be so that we can be truly available, truly open, to allow, to be receptive, to allow the life that is authentically seeking to happen, to reveal itself. And it doesn't mean that you sit there and do nothing. For the Taipei folks out there, it doesn't mean you sit there and I'm surrendered.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

It's letting go of the idea of who we think we should be, how we think life should be so that we can be truly available, truly open, to allow, to be receptive, to allow the life that is authentically seeking to happen, to reveal itself. And it doesn't mean that you sit there and do nothing. For the Taipei folks out there, it doesn't mean you sit there and I'm surrendered.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

It's letting go of the idea of who we think we should be, how we think life should be so that we can be truly available, truly open, to allow, to be receptive, to allow the life that is authentically seeking to happen, to reveal itself. And it doesn't mean that you sit there and do nothing. For the Taipei folks out there, it doesn't mean you sit there and I'm surrendered.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

I'm just going to sit on the couch and like sales are going to magically happen. I'm surrendered. I'm going to sit on the couch and like my soulmate's going to just knock on my door from the middle of nowhere. No, surrender means feeling. It's a shift from the question, just to kind of complete the context. The old ego-based model of creating life is what do I want? What do I want? What do I want?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

I'm just going to sit on the couch and like sales are going to magically happen. I'm surrendered. I'm going to sit on the couch and like my soulmate's going to just knock on my door from the middle of nowhere. No, surrender means feeling. It's a shift from the question, just to kind of complete the context. The old ego-based model of creating life is what do I want? What do I want? What do I want?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

I'm just going to sit on the couch and like sales are going to magically happen. I'm surrendered. I'm going to sit on the couch and like my soulmate's going to just knock on my door from the middle of nowhere. No, surrender means feeling. It's a shift from the question, just to kind of complete the context. The old ego-based model of creating life is what do I want? What do I want? What do I want?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

And it's for drive, pushing, pushing, forced drive. The challenge is ego is limited. You can create life from the ego, but it will always be limited. The shift in the question is from what do I want to a bigger question. It's an infinite question. And that question is, what is it that life

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

And it's for drive, pushing, pushing, forced drive. The challenge is ego is limited. You can create life from the ego, but it will always be limited. The shift in the question is from what do I want to a bigger question. It's an infinite question. And that question is, what is it that life

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

And it's for drive, pushing, pushing, forced drive. The challenge is ego is limited. You can create life from the ego, but it will always be limited. The shift in the question is from what do I want to a bigger question. It's an infinite question. And that question is, what is it that life

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

What is it that the universe, what is it that my soul, what is it that life is seeking to express through me? And to feel what that is, to feel the deepest impulse of what life is seeking to express and to feel that, to attune to that, to align with that. And then once you're in alignment, you're like, this is what's true. This is what is in my integrity. This is what's authentic.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

What is it that the universe, what is it that my soul, what is it that life is seeking to express through me? And to feel what that is, to feel the deepest impulse of what life is seeking to express and to feel that, to attune to that, to align with that. And then once you're in alignment, you're like, this is what's true. This is what is in my integrity. This is what's authentic.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

What is it that the universe, what is it that my soul, what is it that life is seeking to express through me? And to feel what that is, to feel the deepest impulse of what life is seeking to express and to feel that, to attune to that, to align with that. And then once you're in alignment, you're like, this is what's true. This is what is in my integrity. This is what's authentic.