Kyla Harris

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505 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 22 Jul

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Modern Love · My Disability Makes My Sex Life Even Hotter · 22 Jul 2026 podcast

The sex that we had, the first time I had sex, or penetrative sex.

But even though I was starting to feel like I had no control over my body, and that it was, you know, I'd pee when I didn't want to pee, or, you know, shit when I didn't want to shit.

It gave me a sense of being back into my body.

Yeah.

Yeah, the pleasure.

And, you know, I think...

I realized just recently that to go to the bathroom, I need to catheterize.

And that's just like a plastic tube that you insert through the urethra, pee comes out, you chuck it away, one use wonder.

And to do that, I need the assistance of personal assistants, which I know we'll get into.

But...

I think that I disassociated from my genitalia in so many ways because it didn't feel like... My vulva didn't feel like it was my own.

It felt like it was a medical transaction, used for medical transactions.

And I think feeling...

Like I was desired, feeling desire, feeling pleasure, was a way of reclaiming maybe part of me that I thought I'd lost.

Well, I think as much as I felt I was sexually liberated at the age of 16, I also—lol—

I also very much wasn't.

And I think I'd internalized a lot of the man takes the lead and takes the initiative.

I think that being disabled and being in my body and very much...

having to vocalize what I needed on a daily basis, whether it was like, oh, you've strapped my shoe on too tight, or this is pinching the back of my neck, or having to really attune to those moments and then vocalize them.

I think...

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