Kyla Harris

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505 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 22 Jul

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Modern Love · My Disability Makes My Sex Life Even Hotter · 22 Jul 2026 podcast

And when I was younger, I was experimenting with BDSM, which I'm sure most of your listeners know is bondage, domination, sadomasochism.

Thank you for defining no.

Anytime.

And I was just like, okay, well, I want to be able to dominate.

I want to be able to like flog and I'm not a passive part in my sex life.

And so I called up an occupational therapist and

And I said, look, I was wondering if you could help me modify a sex toy.

And she said, never had this request before, but come on in.

You're welcome.

I went to the occupational therapist in her room and I pulled out a flogger and I said, how do... Wait, what?

For those uninitiated, a flogger is like a... Okay, so it's... I would say like...

A gentle whip could be made of anything from rubber to leather that can increase, that is usually used on the bottom of your partner or whoever you choose, consensually, or any other part of their body to kind of stimulate and arouse through the pleasure-pain dichotomy.

And I say, how do I grip this?

How do I grip this tightly so that I'm not kind of like flogging and it flies out or that it's, you know.

That I'm flogging well.

Exactly.

So she had a splint made for me so that I would be able to grip this flogger.

And I was happy to report back to her that it worked.

She's prepared.

Oh, yeah.

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