Lauren Golden
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1,121 appearances
3 recordings
2 series
first heard Apr 2026
last heard 7 Jul
Lauren Golden’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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That wasn't in my head.
That was, that was awful the way he treated me.
Yeah, it's almost like it feels like it's in a bit of a box because you said, oh, it's not as bad as this, but you described it almost the same.
Like you said, it lowered your confidence.
Oh, horrifically.
And that's what she said, you know, like I think anyone who.
wants us to feel smaller that is abuse there's no other word for it that is abuse you know to use emotional tactics to make someone feel small is abuse you know Lauren you're such a way of words you say even that now I that's a little nugget now in my head that's powerful there's people going to be listening to this going oh my god that person is doing that to me and that's abuse I often see people come in and they sit across from me and they constantly minimise it you know you said earlier oh like they didn't hit me now I'm like okay that
I had no place there.
That's irrelevant.
But what did they do?
You know, there's there's no scale of it.
You it's nearly hard to put into words, but you'll feel it.
You'll feel the emptiness after going through something like that.
You'll feel the wounds and they're so internal and silent, like you said.
But it chips and it chips.
And you said earlier, what was I doing?
No one does this on day one.
at the start you have something like what we looked at earlier like the love bomb and the kind of like oh my god you're amazing or great fun and people can do that for a certain amount of time and then it'll be like one comment two comments I feel like if it all hits someone on day one they're a lot less likely to stay but if you do it little by little over time it's like oh well I forgave him for that so it's probably okay and then like it builds it's almost like your tolerance for abuse rises and that's what I see I see it get worse and worse over time so it's no it's no wonder that people stick around it's nearly like um
do you ever hear that analogy of like the crab in the boiling water no tell me so if you if you put a crab in i hate i'm vegetarian so i hate this right but if you put a crab in a boiling pot and let's say you boil the pot first so that pot is scorching hot and you throw the uh the crab into it it jumps out immediately it doesn't stay but if you put the crab in full of water and it's room temperature and you boil it slowly it stays it doesn't jump out oh
Yeah, and it dies that way, you know?
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