Leslie John

Let me just watch them in a reserve and try to learn from human dynamics and behavior.

And so as a, I guess as a Harvard business professor, what I'm hearing you say is that you think EQ is way more valuable than IQ.

Completely.

But most people in the world are trying to become smarter at something and accomplish more degrees and more credibility when that's not the answer.

Now, here's a question for you.

Do you feel like people should get married if they have a low EQ?

If you're really smart and intelligent and you have a high IQ, if you have a low EQ, should you get married?

Because you didn't know yourself emotionally.

But you probably knew on paper or analytically what you wanted.

I want to be married.

I want a guy who's got this job or looks a certain way.

So analytically and on paper, you knew what you wanted.

Wait, so, okay, I'm confused now because you had a high EQ, low EQ before getting married.

You were more in your head, but now I'm hearing you say you're a touchy-feely, emotional, feeling person.

But you weren't back then is what I'm hearing.

There's something about this you said earlier about the mind reading expectations.

Yeah.

You know, in male-female intimate relationships, who has higher mind-reading expectations of the other?

And when someone has a high mind reading.

Okay.