Liliana

I think my grandma has, like I said, she's always been kind of defiant, kind of a variable.

So she watches TV, she smokes, she drinks, but she still goes to church.

She still comes around the family and they still, you know, it's not like they're like, oh, like you're a sinner.

You can't come around.

They're very like, you're free to make your own choices.

You're still welcome with us.

They're, you know, in my opinion, good Christians, but it's also kind of weird because

of stuff I'll bring up later but yeah so as far as I know they're all everybody's pretty close and it is that was a privilege like growing up I didn't realize that like not a lot of families like get everybody together every Sunday and my family's so big we had to like rent out the fire hall to like for like our Christmases and Thanksgivings and stuff but yeah so I would definitely say they're all pretty close everybody knows everybody's business for the most part and yeah

But from my grandma down, it gets a little wonky.

She had two other kids, so I've got two uncles as well.

But she had my mom really, really young.

And my mom, when she was in school, she was popular.

She worked out.

I've seen pictures of my mom.

She was a big muscle girl, like,

She played tennis.

She was really good at tennis.

She has like newspaper clippings of the local newspaper talking about her tennis wins and stuff.

So I perceived my mom to be like she was the popular girl in high school.

She was sporty.