Lisa Bilyeu
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
So I almost don't think of happiness in that way.
But does this move me towards my goals?
Yes or no?
If the answer is no, I pause and I come up with a strategy.
So with the word should or shouldn't, I understand why it holds me back.
I understand what it does to my psyche.
I then go in real time, I have to stop myself.
So that's what I do.
And then in real time, I come up with a different word that empowers me.
That little bit of process and that strategy is the things that I do on my mindset with everything that doesn't serve me so that I never fall or get trapped into a place where I play the victim or I have an excuse.
And what I mean by that is, well, it was not my fault.
Oh, well, I didn't do that.
That doesn't empower you.
So again, pause.
How is it your responsibility?
How can you take ownership?
How do you reorient yourself?
And then how do you keep going?
Yeah.
So even when I was writing, but I never wanted to be an author.