Lisa Bilyeu
speaker
1,143 appearances
6 recordings
5 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard 20 Dec
Lisa Bilyeu’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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On the days that he feels terrible, that he hasn't slept well, that shit hits the fan, work isn't going well, he's had employees, people have quit, and he comes home and he doesn't even notice that he's got his food cooked.
He doesn't even notice that I've cooked and cleaned.
Then I interpret that as my validation of maybe I haven't done a good job.
But it's all reliant on him and what he does.
And so I realized over time that I cannot rely on him in that way.
I think a partner is super important.
Having a loving partner that supports you and uplifts you, I wouldn't trade that for the world.
My husband is the most important thing to me in my life.
I would burn my company to the ground before ever doing anything detrimental to my relationship.
So I'm very clear.
But even in saying that, it isn't fair on him.
And it's not fair on me that my validation and identity is built on anything else other than something that I choose to.
And once I realized that, I spoke to him about it because sometimes he's just like, but I like being your knight in shining armor.
And so here's the difference between, I'm like, babe, you are, but I can't turn to you to save me.
I need to be able to get up myself
And then we can ride off on the horse together.
But I have to have the ability to get up.
And I appreciate that you're standing next to me and you're there to uplift me and help me.
But what if you're not?
What if you've got a bad day?
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