Lisa Bilyeu

Yeah, that's almost like actually because once we've like kind of come to an agreement, I'm still so raw. And so I just need to be cuddled. I need sweetness. Like the last thing I want is like crazy sex.

So that's fascinating.

So that's fascinating.

That's so true. But yet my ex, who was very toxic, we had a lot of make-up sex and break-up sex.

That's so true. But yet my ex, who was very toxic, we had a lot of make-up sex and break-up sex.

All right. So the difference between comfortable or complacent. Have you settled into a healthy rhythm or are you stuck in an unfulfilling routine?

All right. So the difference between comfortable or complacent. Have you settled into a healthy rhythm or are you stuck in an unfulfilling routine?

It's a very negative word.

It's a very negative word.

Yeah, but what's interesting, because in your head, though, you were like, well, hang on, I'm working, I'm doing this. And it's the doing.

Yeah, but what's interesting, because in your head, though, you were like, well, hang on, I'm working, I'm doing this. And it's the doing.

I'm such a data person as well that I love that you just broke it down out of like four and it's like a checklist.

I'm such a data person as well that I love that you just broke it down out of like four and it's like a checklist.

I told you to wash the dishes and I put the soap out.

I told you to wash the dishes and I put the soap out.

That's so good. I love it. I'm going to definitely take that one. I've got a few more for you. All right. Difference between intuition or insecurity. How to tell if your gut is warning you or if past trauma is clouding your judgement.

That's so good. I love it. I'm going to definitely take that one. I've got a few more for you. All right. Difference between intuition or insecurity. How to tell if your gut is warning you or if past trauma is clouding your judgement.

Okay, let me give a scenario for you then. And I want you to let me know how you navigate it. So let's assume you're on a date and you really like them. And you're like, oh my God, we have this connection. Maybe they're the one. And my gut is telling me this is the one, Jay.

Okay, let me give a scenario for you then. And I want you to let me know how you navigate it. So let's assume you're on a date and you really like them. And you're like, oh my God, we have this connection. Maybe they're the one. And my gut is telling me this is the one, Jay.

So how do you know in that moment that your gut is telling you that that person is the right person, or it's just the toxic pattern that you've had from childhood that says if someone acts like this, it means love?