Lisa Miller

And for Jean, the loss of appetite just changed her whole approach to having fun with her husband.

I mean, no longer could they sit on the couch and uncork a bottle of wine at the end of the day or go to the local brew pub and try out the new beer.

None of it felt good to her anymore.

In fact, she had an introverted side that hadn't been able to express herself because she was so busy being a pleaser extrovert because she was in a bigger body and she wanted people to like her.

Once she was in a smaller body, she could assert herself and say, like, actually, I like being at home.

More than tension.

I mean, I think they had a really, really, really hard time.

And when I met them, they were fighting a lot.

And their fights could be loud and ugly.

And one of the biggest things that changed is that they completely stopped having sex.

They both talk about the loss of her butt.

Are there things you miss about your previous body?

My butt.

They both loved her butt.

This, like, physical connection that they had has completely changed into something else.

And neither one of them knows exactly how to find it again.

It's not as accessible to you.

I mean, that's what Javier's theory was, is maybe.

Jean has different theories of the case.

She's gone through menopause.