Lisa Miller
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
She's been on antidepressants for a really long time.
And both of those things are known to suppress sex drive.
But I think there's actually something bigger at work here.
She started to be able to draw boundaries between doing things for other people because they want them and being able to articulate what she wants.
But he very much wants to be her loving partner.
Yes, I think that's true.
I think they're both completely blindsided by that.
So you're empowered in a way to take up space to say what you want.
And that forces you to have to figure out what you want.
Beyond just like, I want to leave the party at 10.
You know, that's in a way that's easy, right?
Like, do I want to have a sexual relationship with my husband?
Do I want to leave my corporate job?
Do I want to, like, these are much bigger questions.
Can you hear me?
So break it down for me.
Like, where were you?
What happened?