Lisa Tawney
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372 appearances
6 recordings
1 series
first heard Oct 2018
last heard Oct 2019
Lisa Tawney’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Well you might actually see yourself doing something and think
Oh, maybe there's a different way to do that or that position worked really well or uh I could do something a bit different or try something a bit unusual here.
So uh I think that's y you know, it can be a real um educative tool as well as bringing pleasure.
Absolutely.
Uh if if you're going to make a sex tape, uh, then you really do need to have very clear communication with each other.
And work out uh what you want to try, what feels good, maybe what doesn't feel so good.
So um i it's and you m and you know, even just talking about it could be an aphrodisiac as well and get you quite excited and and it might lead to something rather fabulous and you may not even get to make the tape 'cause you're busy doing other stuff and you have a knit record.
Mm, absolutely.
And and I imagine that uh people who have their tapes revisit them uh from from time to time and use that uh as foreplay as well.
Yeah, but I think uh do that in a sensitive way, in a in a gentle way, work it into the conversation.
uh rather than just say, Hey, how how about we make a sex tape?
You might uh you might sort of say, Oh, I I read an article the other day about some people who made a sex tape and oh have you ever given that any thought or have you ever done that with anybody or how do you feel about that?
And you know, just kind of coming at it from a a different angle rather than just straight out ask.
Yeah, I think we've heard already tonight, uh, from that other couple who are quite smart in saying that they've filmed themselves without their faces in.
And uh and to hide any distinguishing features like tattoos, I think that's pretty smart.
Um, I would also say, Nat, that um, you know, to be really thoughtful and cautious uh about it and um and to think about questions like uh why do I wanna do this, what are the implications, what could be the consequences if things go bad in my relationship?
Um you know, they all they all play a part.
You know, w you like to think if we're making a tape it's with someone that we trust and um and we have a good relationship with.
Uh but we do know that relationships end and sometimes end really badly.
And people can be very upset and use those images in a not in a good way and an abusive way.
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