Logan Urie

And in my head, I hear ding, ding, ding, because I'm like, yeah, you're tight. hasn't been serving you. Let's see who this person is. And maybe that's who you're going to end up with. And for me, do you think that my type was a five foot eight redheaded vegan engineer?

And in my head, I hear ding, ding, ding, because I'm like, yeah, you're tight. hasn't been serving you. Let's see who this person is. And maybe that's who you're going to end up with. And for me, do you think that my type was a five foot eight redheaded vegan engineer?

And in my head, I hear ding, ding, ding, because I'm like, yeah, you're tight. hasn't been serving you. Let's see who this person is. And maybe that's who you're going to end up with. And for me, do you think that my type was a five foot eight redheaded vegan engineer?

Okay. I'm like, okay, I'm feeling like there is a theme here. I'm just saying it's like the person, I dated a lot of people. The person who made me happiest in my life is someone who has an opposite personality from me has different interests than me, but we just share a sense of humor. He's so smart. I love his advice. I really admire him.

Okay. I'm like, okay, I'm feeling like there is a theme here. I'm just saying it's like the person, I dated a lot of people. The person who made me happiest in my life is someone who has an opposite personality from me has different interests than me, but we just share a sense of humor. He's so smart. I love his advice. I really admire him.

Okay. I'm like, okay, I'm feeling like there is a theme here. I'm just saying it's like the person, I dated a lot of people. The person who made me happiest in my life is someone who has an opposite personality from me has different interests than me, but we just share a sense of humor. He's so smart. I love his advice. I really admire him.

And so I think when people get so stuck on this checklist and these superficial qualities, they're actually missing out on a lot of essential pieces.

And so I think when people get so stuck on this checklist and these superficial qualities, they're actually missing out on a lot of essential pieces.

And so I think when people get so stuck on this checklist and these superficial qualities, they're actually missing out on a lot of essential pieces.

Okay, great. So I have a chapter in my book called Fuck the Spark. And this has become sort of my unofficial motto because I have so many coaching clients who come to me and they're like, we went on this great date. We had so much to talk about. I'm really glad that I met her. I'm not going to see her again. like, what are you talking about? And they'll say, I just didn't feel the spark.

Okay, great. So I have a chapter in my book called Fuck the Spark. And this has become sort of my unofficial motto because I have so many coaching clients who come to me and they're like, we went on this great date. We had so much to talk about. I'm really glad that I met her. I'm not going to see her again. like, what are you talking about? And they'll say, I just didn't feel the spark.

Okay, great. So I have a chapter in my book called Fuck the Spark. And this has become sort of my unofficial motto because I have so many coaching clients who come to me and they're like, we went on this great date. We had so much to talk about. I'm really glad that I met her. I'm not going to see her again. like, what are you talking about? And they'll say, I just didn't feel the spark.

And so the spark has become my nemesis because it's this all-encompassing term that means instant chemistry, fireworks, puppies, butterflies, and people have really unrealistic expectations around it. And so there are three myths of the spark. The first one is that If you don't have a spark in the beginning, it can't grow. And that's absolutely not true.

And so the spark has become my nemesis because it's this all-encompassing term that means instant chemistry, fireworks, puppies, butterflies, and people have really unrealistic expectations around it. And so there are three myths of the spark. The first one is that If you don't have a spark in the beginning, it can't grow. And that's absolutely not true.

And so the spark has become my nemesis because it's this all-encompassing term that means instant chemistry, fireworks, puppies, butterflies, and people have really unrealistic expectations around it. And so there are three myths of the spark. The first one is that If you don't have a spark in the beginning, it can't grow. And that's absolutely not true.

Research shows that only 11% of couples felt love at first sight. Wow, really? Yeah. And many people say, oh, you know, we work together and the interest grew over time. Or I wasn't going to say yes to the second date, but then I did. And I found that I really liked them more over time. And so the spark definitely can grow. The second myth is that if you feel a spark, it's a good thing.

Research shows that only 11% of couples felt love at first sight. Wow, really? Yeah. And many people say, oh, you know, we work together and the interest grew over time. Or I wasn't going to say yes to the second date, but then I did. And I found that I really liked them more over time. And so the spark definitely can grow. The second myth is that if you feel a spark, it's a good thing.

Research shows that only 11% of couples felt love at first sight. Wow, really? Yeah. And many people say, oh, you know, we work together and the interest grew over time. Or I wasn't going to say yes to the second date, but then I did. And I found that I really liked them more over time. And so the spark definitely can grow. The second myth is that if you feel a spark, it's a good thing.

And that's definitely not always the case. Some people are just really sparky. And I always think about my friend Archie, where the first few times I met him, I was like, whoa, we really have a connection. And then I talked to my friend who I'd never said that to. And she's like, I feel like Archie and I really have a connection. And I was like, oh, Archie's just really sparky.

And that's definitely not always the case. Some people are just really sparky. And I always think about my friend Archie, where the first few times I met him, I was like, whoa, we really have a connection. And then I talked to my friend who I'd never said that to. And she's like, I feel like Archie and I really have a connection. And I was like, oh, Archie's just really sparky.