Logan Urie

Yes, because do you know Sherry Turkle? She's a Harvard professor and she's been studying online behavior for a long time. And so I spoke to her about 10 years ago and she just talked about the fact that people now don't know how to have these hard conversations. They don't know how to apologize in person. They don't have to face the consequences.

Yes, because do you know Sherry Turkle? She's a Harvard professor and she's been studying online behavior for a long time. And so I spoke to her about 10 years ago and she just talked about the fact that people now don't know how to have these hard conversations. They don't know how to apologize in person. They don't have to face the consequences.

And I think that it's having a lot of impacts, both in terms of things like ghosting, where you can really leave someone hanging and you don't have to deal with their hurt feelings, but then also in not taking a risk.

And I think that it's having a lot of impacts, both in terms of things like ghosting, where you can really leave someone hanging and you don't have to deal with their hurt feelings, but then also in not taking a risk.

And I think that it's having a lot of impacts, both in terms of things like ghosting, where you can really leave someone hanging and you don't have to deal with their hurt feelings, but then also in not taking a risk.

I haven't specifically heard that, but that is something where I would really... recommend that the person take a look at their own behavior and really do a relationship audit and sit there and say, who are the people I've dated in the past? What were they like? What did I like about that relationship? What did I not like? What side of me did they bring out?

I haven't specifically heard that, but that is something where I would really... recommend that the person take a look at their own behavior and really do a relationship audit and sit there and say, who are the people I've dated in the past? What were they like? What did I like about that relationship? What did I not like? What side of me did they bring out?

I haven't specifically heard that, but that is something where I would really... recommend that the person take a look at their own behavior and really do a relationship audit and sit there and say, who are the people I've dated in the past? What were they like? What did I like about that relationship? What did I not like? What side of me did they bring out?

What do I want to take forward into the future and what do I want to do differently? And then really use that to make more informed choices in the future. And of course, sometimes exes get back together, but I feel like reading between the lines of your questions, it's not necessarily that this was such a good match for them. It was more that it's safer and it's something that they already know.

What do I want to take forward into the future and what do I want to do differently? And then really use that to make more informed choices in the future. And of course, sometimes exes get back together, but I feel like reading between the lines of your questions, it's not necessarily that this was such a good match for them. It was more that it's safer and it's something that they already know.

What do I want to take forward into the future and what do I want to do differently? And then really use that to make more informed choices in the future. And of course, sometimes exes get back together, but I feel like reading between the lines of your questions, it's not necessarily that this was such a good match for them. It was more that it's safer and it's something that they already know.

And so for those people, I would say, are you doing the safe thing? And how can you actually use your 20s as a time of experimentation? And that's one of the things I say over and over to people is date like a scientist because A scientist has a hypothesis and then they test it and they're willing to be proven right or wrong.

And so for those people, I would say, are you doing the safe thing? And how can you actually use your 20s as a time of experimentation? And that's one of the things I say over and over to people is date like a scientist because A scientist has a hypothesis and then they test it and they're willing to be proven right or wrong.

And so for those people, I would say, are you doing the safe thing? And how can you actually use your 20s as a time of experimentation? And that's one of the things I say over and over to people is date like a scientist because A scientist has a hypothesis and then they test it and they're willing to be proven right or wrong.

And I feel like a lot of times people just come to me and they say, Logan, I know exactly what I want. I want a five, six skinny redhead. Help me find her. And I was like, you think you know what you want, but you're wrong. Let's actually experiment. And why don't you date someone totally different and see how that feels? I do that for women who are obsessed with dating tall guys.

And I feel like a lot of times people just come to me and they say, Logan, I know exactly what I want. I want a five, six skinny redhead. Help me find her. And I was like, you think you know what you want, but you're wrong. Let's actually experiment. And why don't you date someone totally different and see how that feels? I do that for women who are obsessed with dating tall guys.

And I feel like a lot of times people just come to me and they say, Logan, I know exactly what I want. I want a five, six skinny redhead. Help me find her. And I was like, you think you know what you want, but you're wrong. Let's actually experiment. And why don't you date someone totally different and see how that feels? I do that for women who are obsessed with dating tall guys.

I'm like, go on some date with some short guys and see how it feels. And so For your daughter's friends and for anyone listening, what are the assumptions you're making about who you want to be with and how can you actually test that by dating other types of people? And so often with my clients, they'll come to me and they'll say, you know, I went on this date and he's not really my type.

I'm like, go on some date with some short guys and see how it feels. And so For your daughter's friends and for anyone listening, what are the assumptions you're making about who you want to be with and how can you actually test that by dating other types of people? And so often with my clients, they'll come to me and they'll say, you know, I went on this date and he's not really my type.

I'm like, go on some date with some short guys and see how it feels. And so For your daughter's friends and for anyone listening, what are the assumptions you're making about who you want to be with and how can you actually test that by dating other types of people? And so often with my clients, they'll come to me and they'll say, you know, I went on this date and he's not really my type.