Logan Urie
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Podcast Appearances
And so the tool that I have for that is called the Post-Date Aid.
The who?
The post-date eight.
These are eight things to ask yourself after every date.
And what they do is they train your brain during the date to look for the things that matter.
So you move from the evaluative mindset.
Are they good enough for me?
Do they make enough money?
To the experiential mindset.
How do I feel when I'm around them?
So these are the questions.
What side of me did they bring out?
We just talked about that.
How did my body feel during the date?
stiff, relaxed, or something in between?
Do I feel energized or de-energized?
Is there something about them that I'm curious about?
Did they make me laugh?
Did I feel heard?
Did I feel attractive in their presence?