Logan Urie

So my old advice for this used to be to expand your filters and to get less picky. So that's not what we should do? Well, in my dating class, I realized that a percentage of the population is also not picky enough. So for the majority of people... How the hell do I know? It basically is things like, do you feel like you have too many options and that you're getting overwhelmed?

So my old advice for this used to be to expand your filters and to get less picky. So that's not what we should do? Well, in my dating class, I realized that a percentage of the population is also not picky enough. So for the majority of people... How the hell do I know? It basically is things like, do you feel like you have too many options and that you're getting overwhelmed?

So my old advice for this used to be to expand your filters and to get less picky. So that's not what we should do? Well, in my dating class, I realized that a percentage of the population is also not picky enough. So for the majority of people... How the hell do I know? It basically is things like, do you feel like you have too many options and that you're getting overwhelmed?

And is that leading to burnout? Or do you consistently feel like you're holding up your phone saying, where's my wife? Where's my husband? Where's my significant other? I don't have enough matches. Got it. And it also is a mindset shift where are you somebody who's constantly finding flaws in other people?

And is that leading to burnout? Or do you consistently feel like you're holding up your phone saying, where's my wife? Where's my husband? Where's my significant other? I don't have enough matches. Got it. And it also is a mindset shift where are you somebody who's constantly finding flaws in other people?

And is that leading to burnout? Or do you consistently feel like you're holding up your phone saying, where's my wife? Where's my husband? Where's my significant other? I don't have enough matches. Got it. And it also is a mindset shift where are you somebody who's constantly finding flaws in other people?

Or are you someone who keeps saying things like, well, they didn't treat me that well, but they pursued me? But most people I work with do tend to be on the too picky side. And for them, I would say if you remove all filters, that's going to be chaotic. But look at your age filters. Can you go up a little bit in the maximum? Can you go down a little bit in the minimum?

Or are you someone who keeps saying things like, well, they didn't treat me that well, but they pursued me? But most people I work with do tend to be on the too picky side. And for them, I would say if you remove all filters, that's going to be chaotic. But look at your age filters. Can you go up a little bit in the maximum? Can you go down a little bit in the minimum?

Or are you someone who keeps saying things like, well, they didn't treat me that well, but they pursued me? But most people I work with do tend to be on the too picky side. And for them, I would say if you remove all filters, that's going to be chaotic. But look at your age filters. Can you go up a little bit in the maximum? Can you go down a little bit in the minimum?

Look at your geography filter. Can you make that broader? What are other ways that you're filtering people out? And can you actually focus less on that and focus more on the things that really matter? Yeah.

Look at your geography filter. Can you make that broader? What are other ways that you're filtering people out? And can you actually focus less on that and focus more on the things that really matter? Yeah.

Look at your geography filter. Can you make that broader? What are other ways that you're filtering people out? And can you actually focus less on that and focus more on the things that really matter? Yeah.

So one thing that we found in our research at Hinge that I use a lot in my coaching is that when women feel very overwhelmed, it's often because they don't feel like they're in the driver's seat of their dating life. Hmm. And so they say, oh yeah, I don't comment on anyone's photos. I don't send any likes. Why would I? I'm getting so many incoming messages.

So one thing that we found in our research at Hinge that I use a lot in my coaching is that when women feel very overwhelmed, it's often because they don't feel like they're in the driver's seat of their dating life. Hmm. And so they say, oh yeah, I don't comment on anyone's photos. I don't send any likes. Why would I? I'm getting so many incoming messages.

So one thing that we found in our research at Hinge that I use a lot in my coaching is that when women feel very overwhelmed, it's often because they don't feel like they're in the driver's seat of their dating life. Hmm. And so they say, oh yeah, I don't comment on anyone's photos. I don't send any likes. Why would I? I'm getting so many incoming messages.

And then I say to them, that's like saying, oh, I really want to find my dream job, but I'm only responding to the LinkedIn messages that recruiters are sending me. No one has ever gotten their dream job by waiting for an incoming message from a recruiter. You have to go out and look for it.

And then I say to them, that's like saying, oh, I really want to find my dream job, but I'm only responding to the LinkedIn messages that recruiters are sending me. No one has ever gotten their dream job by waiting for an incoming message from a recruiter. You have to go out and look for it.

And then I say to them, that's like saying, oh, I really want to find my dream job, but I'm only responding to the LinkedIn messages that recruiters are sending me. No one has ever gotten their dream job by waiting for an incoming message from a recruiter. You have to go out and look for it.

And so what we found in our research is that the more that you're in the driver's seat, the more that you feel like you are pursuing people and that you're going after what you want, the less burned out you feel.

And so what we found in our research is that the more that you're in the driver's seat, the more that you feel like you are pursuing people and that you're going after what you want, the less burned out you feel.