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Logan Urie

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
483 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

I'd love to meet a six foot guy. And then they put that as their filter. And then suddenly they're like, why is there no one in my club? Where are all the guys? And it's like, well, you filtered out 86% of men who are under six feet tall. And now you're wondering why I'm having a hard time. And so people are creating really harsh filters and then not seeing a bunch of people.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

I'd love to meet a six foot guy. And then they put that as their filter. And then suddenly they're like, why is there no one in my club? Where are all the guys? And it's like, well, you filtered out 86% of men who are under six feet tall. And now you're wondering why I'm having a hard time. And so people are creating really harsh filters and then not seeing a bunch of people.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

So it's definitely related to filters because I had a post on Instagram about how women are filtering out short guys. And then the guys complain and they're like, Yes, I'm being filtered out. And then the women's complain and they're like, well, you have really harsh age filters and you're filtering out women under 35 or whatever they say.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

So it's definitely related to filters because I had a post on Instagram about how women are filtering out short guys. And then the guys complain and they're like, Yes, I'm being filtered out. And then the women's complain and they're like, well, you have really harsh age filters and you're filtering out women under 35 or whatever they say.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

So it's definitely related to filters because I had a post on Instagram about how women are filtering out short guys. And then the guys complain and they're like, Yes, I'm being filtered out. And then the women's complain and they're like, well, you have really harsh age filters and you're filtering out women under 35 or whatever they say.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

And so it's definitely happening across the board because people are really having these bouncers that are not letting anyone into the club. So for the singles party that I had, it was a straight dating event, 27 women, 27 men. And when they came together, 70 dates came out of it because you could match with more than one person. Yep. And then afterwards- Was anyone left with a no? Yes.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

And so it's definitely happening across the board because people are really having these bouncers that are not letting anyone into the club. So for the singles party that I had, it was a straight dating event, 27 women, 27 men. And when they came together, 70 dates came out of it because you could match with more than one person. Yep. And then afterwards- Was anyone left with a no? Yes.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

And so it's definitely happening across the board because people are really having these bouncers that are not letting anyone into the club. So for the singles party that I had, it was a straight dating event, 27 women, 27 men. And when they came together, 70 dates came out of it because you could match with more than one person. Yep. And then afterwards- Was anyone left with a no? Yes.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

Oh, that seems so harsh. I hate that. It was hard. Oh.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

Oh, that seems so harsh. I hate that. It was hard. Oh.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

Oh, that seems so harsh. I hate that. It was hard. Oh.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

So you have this dating event. Yes. 27 people, 70 matches. Oh, yeah. 54 people, 70 matches. And then afterwards, I sent them all a survey and I said, the person who you matched with, would you have said yes to them on a dating app? And many people said no. Oh. Not because I wouldn't have been interested in them, but they wouldn't have shown up on my app in the first place.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

So you have this dating event. Yes. 27 people, 70 matches. Oh, yeah. 54 people, 70 matches. And then afterwards, I sent them all a survey and I said, the person who you matched with, would you have said yes to them on a dating app? And many people said no. Oh. Not because I wouldn't have been interested in them, but they wouldn't have shown up on my app in the first place.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

So you have this dating event. Yes. 27 people, 70 matches. Oh, yeah. 54 people, 70 matches. And then afterwards, I sent them all a survey and I said, the person who you matched with, would you have said yes to them on a dating app? And many people said no. Oh. Not because I wouldn't have been interested in them, but they wouldn't have shown up on my app in the first place.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

they would have been filtered out by age, height, religion, or how far they live from me. And this is such an important point for people to realize is that if you were at a bar and you sat across from a guy and you had an amazing conversation- Or a gal. Or a gal. He had the cutest face. Or they. She had the cutest face. They had the cutest face and you had a great conversation.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

they would have been filtered out by age, height, religion, or how far they live from me. And this is such an important point for people to realize is that if you were at a bar and you sat across from a guy and you had an amazing conversation- Or a gal. Or a gal. He had the cutest face. Or they. She had the cutest face. They had the cutest face and you had a great conversation.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

they would have been filtered out by age, height, religion, or how far they live from me. And this is such an important point for people to realize is that if you were at a bar and you sat across from a guy and you had an amazing conversation- Or a gal. Or a gal. He had the cutest face. Or they. She had the cutest face. They had the cutest face and you had a great conversation.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

And then they stood up and their body type or their height was different from what you expected, you'd likely still want to see them again. Yes. But When you set your filters to really make it so strict and to have this bouncer keep them out of your club, you're not even getting the chance to meet them in the first place.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

And then they stood up and their body type or their height was different from what you expected, you'd likely still want to see them again. Yes. But When you set your filters to really make it so strict and to have this bouncer keep them out of your club, you're not even getting the chance to meet them in the first place.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

And then they stood up and their body type or their height was different from what you expected, you'd likely still want to see them again. Yes. But When you set your filters to really make it so strict and to have this bouncer keep them out of your club, you're not even getting the chance to meet them in the first place.