Luigi Vendittelli

the communication, contact, and all that, that was not just, it's not nuts and bolts, it becomes emotional.

And emotional is a difficult thing.

You're no longer, I'm no longer talking to you about something that is logical.

I'm talking about an emotional response.

And that is not the same.

No, and it's trauma emotion.

It's trauma emotion, exactly.

So I became very conscious of the fact that I don't wanna spark

any trauma on somebody because I'm inquisitive, you know what I mean?

Or I'm interested, or I'm curious about this.

So I have to be, I have to learn all over again to be like, okay, because if I can ask you, you know, is the flying saucer that had tripods, did it not have tripods?

Okay, you know, did it have legs, no legs, whatever.

That's like nuts and bolts, but...

when you were crying, were you crying because you were scared or were you crying because you were traumatized?

It's a completely different interaction, right?

So you have to be very, and again,

I always say, I used to say, I can't believe I'm the guy doing this because I shouldn't be.

There should be absolute experts in psychology that are not sitting down with these people, assessing them, or let's say, trying to judge to see what's their problem.

Right.

See what I mean?