Margaret Webb

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3,898 appearances 19 recordings 1 series first heard Mar 2016 last heard 19 Dec

Margaret Webb’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children · TPP 415: How Can I Navigate My Children’s Chaotic Energy at Bedtime? · 26 Nov 2024 podcast

And it probably does feel like a lot. voice-verified

But it's also fairly typical for that to happen. voice-verified

Now, that said, you know, I'm always curious about the underlying why. voice-verified

And so it's like, what's the underlying why around the tension around transition? voice-verified

And so it's like, you know, transition before bed. voice-verified

Well, we don't want to go to bed or we don't want to go to school. voice-verified

And so what can we do is we can get all, you know, there's like this, voice-verified

nervous energy or this anxious energy or just big energy. voice-verified

And they can be getting what I call shadow payoffs from utilizing that energy in ways that are not ideal for parents. voice-verified

And so I always like to think about, okay, they're, you know, in these situations, are they getting shadow payoffs? voice-verified

And a shadow payoff is just like, they're getting something voice-verified

from the experience that is not ideal, but they're still getting something from it. voice-verified

And so that can look like the parent, I mean, it can look like them wrestling, like, so they're getting a shadow payoff from their siblings. voice-verified

And so they're getting to have some of that energy burned off. voice-verified

The parent might engage in a way where it's like, you know, increase in energy, it might be yelling, it might be, you know, like, voice-verified

giving ultimatums and all of that stuff, which as an adult, you're thinking like, how is that a payoff? voice-verified

But they're still getting a different kind of attention and they're getting a different, you know, they're getting energy that might be meeting their own energy. voice-verified

And so I'm always curious about that in the sense of looking at, okay, well, what's working? voice-verified

What's not working and what can we do different? voice-verified

And to be able to zoom out and think about, okay, well, what's going on? voice-verified

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