Maria McErlane

What do you prefer?

Yeah, that's the dull bit, actually, isn't it?

Who wants to do that?

Nobody.

Really, really.

No!

I mean, you have to kind of take a zen pill on holiday, don't you, if you're doing that?

Or... Get somebody to do it for you.

This all sounds incredible.

Talk to me about their credentials, Graham.

How fabulous.

And if I'm leaving the logistics to them, that means I can spend more time browsing the website and dreaming of African safaris, Indian temples, or the gorgeous Italian coastline.

That's a fun bit, isn't it?

Plenty of opportunities for great holidays, great memories, and great stories.

Okie dokie.

Dear Graham and Maria, really love the pod.

I wanted to ask for your advice.

My older brother and his girlfriend have been together for over 10 years, and it's pretty clear their relationship isn't the healthiest.

When they have fights, they are big and messy, so much so that the whole family, brackets, and even friends end up getting involved.

His girlfriend often comes to me to vent or ask for my opinion.