Master Shi Heng Yi

And then train, of course.

And then train, of course.

From this moment, there's one thing I can tell by myself what I would absolutely prevent when it would come, let's say, to the education or what I share with my son. Like I said, I felt I was never enough. There was always something that additionally needed to be done. So, which literally means for me, for my son, there is nothing to be done. There is nothing he has to achieve.

From this moment, there's one thing I can tell by myself what I would absolutely prevent when it would come, let's say, to the education or what I share with my son. Like I said, I felt I was never enough. There was always something that additionally needed to be done. So, which literally means for me, for my son, there is nothing to be done. There is nothing he has to achieve.

If there would be something, it is stay connected. So in terms of I don't see myself as somebody who is now having the responsibility to shape my son. No, I only provide the framework. I try to provide the most safe framework for my son. He can try out whatever he wants. If he fails, he will learn by himself to get up again and keep trying. So, you know... to fail, and then to continue.

If there would be something, it is stay connected. So in terms of I don't see myself as somebody who is now having the responsibility to shape my son. No, I only provide the framework. I try to provide the most safe framework for my son. He can try out whatever he wants. If he fails, he will learn by himself to get up again and keep trying. So, you know... to fail, and then to continue.

I just want to build up this framework as good as I can to make him feel safe. But trial and error is what I do believe is the way how you find yourself. So definitely not being spoiled, but at the same time also not like keeping something away from him where I make him feel like he's not enough.

I just want to build up this framework as good as I can to make him feel safe. But trial and error is what I do believe is the way how you find yourself. So definitely not being spoiled, but at the same time also not like keeping something away from him where I make him feel like he's not enough.

So ultimately I do think in the modern way of how to express it in all these attachment theories, very simple. Of course it's the secure way of being a stable, own-built, self-made, self-sufficient person. individual who knows his own value. Why? Because he failed and got up.

So ultimately I do think in the modern way of how to express it in all these attachment theories, very simple. Of course it's the secure way of being a stable, own-built, self-made, self-sufficient person. individual who knows his own value. Why? Because he failed and got up.

Whatever shows up right now at this moment, 2025, it didn't start in 2025. Whatever appears right now, sometimes it's the result of how things have been handled, how the education has been from previous years, whether it's the last 10 years, whether it's the last 20 years. So it's not necessarily what did the generation right now did wrong, let's say.

Whatever shows up right now at this moment, 2025, it didn't start in 2025. Whatever appears right now, sometimes it's the result of how things have been handled, how the education has been from previous years, whether it's the last 10 years, whether it's the last 20 years. So it's not necessarily what did the generation right now did wrong, let's say.

No, it's also the question of what did the previous generation missed to keep passing on. that ultimately led to the result that we have nowadays. And this is the question where I do think it's multilayered.

No, it's also the question of what did the previous generation missed to keep passing on. that ultimately led to the result that we have nowadays. And this is the question where I do think it's multilayered.

Let's put the context first. Take a symbol. Just you have a goal setting. You set yourself whatever goal it is. You have your goal. So your mind is set on the goal normally. The five hindrances now simply describe there are five mental states. that would actually make it difficult for you to still keep your goal in the mind, whatever goal that is.

Let's put the context first. Take a symbol. Just you have a goal setting. You set yourself whatever goal it is. You have your goal. So your mind is set on the goal normally. The five hindrances now simply describe there are five mental states. that would actually make it difficult for you to still keep your goal in the mind, whatever goal that is.

The number one, for example, is called sensual desire. Sensual desire means you are too receptive for any type of pleasurable feeling in regards to your five senses. You're being too quickly attracted when you see something beautiful. You're too quickly attracted if you smell something tasty. You're too quickly distracted when you have physical touch.

The number one, for example, is called sensual desire. Sensual desire means you are too receptive for any type of pleasurable feeling in regards to your five senses. You're being too quickly attracted when you see something beautiful. You're too quickly attracted if you smell something tasty. You're too quickly distracted when you have physical touch.

So the first hindrance means you're losing the goal already because in the moment something pleasurable is being presented to you, your mind has shifted already. So that means that first mental state only means, look, be aware of what is it that you are very easily attracted to. It doesn't say it's bad. It doesn't say it's good.

So the first hindrance means you're losing the goal already because in the moment something pleasurable is being presented to you, your mind has shifted already. So that means that first mental state only means, look, be aware of what is it that you are very easily attracted to. It doesn't say it's bad. It doesn't say it's good.