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Matt Kielty

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
1691 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

There come these new psychologists who think we can be happy.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

who think we can be free from our suffering.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

And one of those psychologists was this guy.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

Basically the anti-Freud.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

Now, Dr. Rogers, something of yourself.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

Carl Rogers.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

I'm Carl Rogers.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

He's the second most influential psychotherapist ever after Sigmund Freud.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

And Rogers believed that, sure... Of course, we're all of us a little bit crazy, including me.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

People are messy, they're impulsive, but fundamentally... People are good.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

...is because... A person would be saying, I'm not really me.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

People aren't being themselves.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

Your true, authentic self...

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

Instead, people were suffering because they were trying to be, here's a rather typical statement, who they thought they were supposed to be.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

From a young woman.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

She says, I think that I began to lose me when I was in high school.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

There's the young woman who's always trying to please everybody.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

Trying to make people feel at ease around me or to make things go along smoothly.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

Or the young man... Why am I afraid of her?

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

Who tries to never disappoint his mom.