Mel Robbins

And then your job is what you do in real life.

And I really want to highlight this part, that there are two things here.

One is how you're using the app.

But the other is, and I'm suspicious about this, that it's become too easy to just look on your phone.

And people, I believe, have become less courageous and brave with putting themselves out there in real life.

I met my husband at a bar.

That's how we met.

And I met him by turning around and talking to him.

And he was a stranger.

The person that you will marry is likely a stranger right now.

And there are strangers everywhere around you.

And so are you seeing anything in the data or anything in your experience coaching people who are single?

about how there is a decrease in a willingness to put yourself out there, which has always been hard since the beginning of time.

What are the top things that the person is doing wrong right now

on their profile and what do they need to fix in order to increase, based on the data, their chance to connect with somebody.

Before I jump into my next question for you, I have a question that was submitted by a listener named Yuna, who is sharing about her biggest dating revelation as a 29-year-old.

So if you're somebody who's frustrated because you keep thinking you have this ideal and then you are not getting the right matches, what are the steps you need to take once you kind of shift your mindset?

Are there specific things to do on the app?

Are there behaviors that you need to engage in that will actually open up

your dating pool to more people?