Mel Robbins

Problem finding?

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I want to make sure the person listening got this.

One of the reasons why I get stuck and you get stuck and the people that you love get stuck is number one, we're asking the wrong question, which is how do I find me?

The ultimate answer to life.

Well, what I love about it is, and you know, look, this is why you guys are brilliant.

Okay.

I'm just going to say it's because as I've been sitting here going, you know, I got to find it that that statement in and of itself says it's out there.

Right.

How do I create more meaning right here?

Well, I'm glad you said there was a second question.

Here's the thing.

As somebody who's really screwed up her life for large stretches of it, there are times if you had asked, you had instructed me, Mel, the answer is to find more meaning where you are right now.

You know what I would have said?

Probably F you because I don't like where I am right now.

And there is nothing meaningful about this, which is why I want something else.

Do you know what I mean?

What do you say to the person that's feeling that way?