Mel Robbins
speaker
56,558 appearances
205 recordings
20 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard 2d ago
Mel Robbins’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Oh boy, I have made this one in almost every relationship.
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And that mistake is thinking they should.
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Thinking they should is creating a tremendous amount of stress and frustration in your relationship.
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And from this point forward, I want you to stop thinking they should and start asking if they could.
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See, you think your husband should know when you're stressed and offer to take something off your place.
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You think your mother should know that when she makes a comment about your weight or that you're still single or that you don't want to have kids, that it's ruining your relationship.
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You think your friend should know that you're upset because she hasn't responded to the text you sent four days ago.
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They should know.
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They should remember.
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They should help.
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They should notice.
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And that's the mistake.
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Because you now have an expectation about what someone else should do.
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And that then sets you up for being pissed off when they don't do it.
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And plus, if you're thinking they should, you're also asking someone to read your mind.
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Other people cannot read your mind.
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And if you're thinking they should, you're also making one other mistake.
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And I've made this one a lot.
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You're assuming automatically that they could.
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Let me give you an example.
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