Melani Sanders

I have to wear this or do this or do that.

And it's like, Melanie, girl, go put on a shirt and some pants and be okay.

Because we do not care much anymore.

I think many times we focus on what looks good more so than what feels good.

And I think we need to really dial it back some and say, what feels good to me?

Like you might have some stilettos that look really good, but these tennis shoes are sure are comfortable and they feel good.

So, you know, and that's on every level of your life.

Sometimes it could be with people that are in your life.

It looks good to hang out with her or to do such and such.

But then you might just want a down-home sister who don't want to wear a bra just like you.

And that feels good.

As I have these conversations with celebrities, they're just everyday women just like anyone else.

And I'm not sure the wording I can say.

We all have drakuchi.

then that's okay.

Yes, and actually sometimes on many of my videos where I am extremely vulnerable, where the tears are flowing,

Sometimes it's like, Melanie, don't hit record again, crying.

Don't do that.

But then it's like, you know what?

No, this is my life.