Melina Goransson

That means you have one main partner?

Not a monogamous relationship.

You're somehow allowed in different ways.

You can see other people sexually.

It doesn't have to be there for some people, but I think it's probably easier and we probably don't really have time or the energy for more than one person to really...

um i feel like we figure out things more and more like when it comes to like what's a good person for us to hang out and what's not a good person for us to hang out with or like i probably have more opinions on like who he hangs out with because he likes the fucking psychos yeah so you you like this around he likes the not like the crazy ones like the baby trap sort of women that's the that's the ones and i don't like that because that affects me yeah

Usually, whenever I feel like he's not spending the amount of time that I'm asking for, and he spends it on his video games or his stream, or he sees someone else more than he sees me or something like that, that would not be good.

Because then it affects our relationship.

Do you have a good sense of like, is it literally time or is it the energy put into the... It's probably like if he's with me, that like the attention in the time, like when he hangs out with me, and then there's also probably the time.

So if I feel like something else is distracting too much, like it could be work or it could be a friend or it could be anything.

Like if I feel like it starts to take away from like me, then I'm having an issue with it.

I don't think he really cares much.

I guess the only jealousy you experience is probably when you feel like...

Like, if I get upset about him seeing someone too much and then I go see someone more, and then he's like, why can't I go see my friend more, like, as much as you?

So, like, that's the sort of, like, thing that we're trying to navigate on, I guess.

Mm-hmm.

I like being present.

To wander somewhere else.

I feel like if we're just aware of it and we're trying our best whenever we're supposed to do this one thing.

So let's say that we want to go to New York and I'm like, we should just go out and do this one specific thing.