Melissa Kircher

So that's a little bit of the ones.

The twos are heart people who the fear is being unwanted and unlovable just as they are.

And so they work really hard to ingratiate themselves with others.

They have a radar for other people's needs.

and desires and wants and work to meet that sometimes by giving, sometimes by being like a really important person in other people's lives.

So having significance in others' lives.

Their focus is very much external, relational, emotional.

They're lovely to be around.

And then they also have to kind of work to know themselves a little bit because if they're always focusing on others, they kind of got to find that inside love for themselves.

Threes are the people who fear not having worth or value innately.

And so they assuage that fear by working to succeed.

They want to look good.

be a success, achieve high value and goals.

They work really hard.

They're doers.

They're out in the world getting everything done, but with the goal of being successful.

Failure they don't like.

They're very charming, charismatic people, very magnetic, often found in leadership positions.

You would think if you want success, that's going to be a leader.

They're also very kind and caring as well.