Melissa Neff
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1,584 appearances
4 recordings
1 series
first heard Jun 2017
last heard Dec 2022
Melissa Neff’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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I can't help it.
I won't do it.
So
If ODD is I I won't do it.
PDA is I want to do it, but I I can't right now.
I can't do it right now because the anxiety and the demand is so intense that I
Can't have my freedom be impinged by your external demands.
So there's this fantastic um YouTuber who just wrote a book in the UK and his name is Harry Thompson.
And he just wrote a book on PDA and he he said maybe a better word for PDA would be pathologically
Free spirited.
Right.
Because the idea is that I can't help it.
I don't wanna do that right now.
It's not that I don't want to comply.
It's not that I'm trying to stick it to you.
It's that I have this sensory overload in my body.
And I just can't.
It's like a freeze response.
And then there's sort of a um
There's almost like a trickery to it of sort of a a playfulness of let's see how far I can push it.
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