Melissa Vranjes
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It's putting pressure on it.
It's like someone's changed up the motion.
So it's dropped you off.
There could be a distraction.
You hear somebody.
Um, but most of all, it's usually that like I'm in my head and I'm,
all I'm focusing on is getting to the goal rather than building pleasure.
So many people have sex and it's like, let's just both get to orgasm because that's what we're focusing on rather than like how much pleasure can we create in each other's bodies together?
When we're focusing on pleasure, we don't put so much pressure on the big O. So it's like, if that happens, cheering on the top, amazing.
If it doesn't, it's okay.
Yeah, it's like less pressure, less like this has to happen or else our sex is shit.
But so many people don't think like that.
You know, sex is we have an orgasm.
Our relationship is good.
I see there's three stages in orgasm.
One is the pleasure building stage.