Molly Graham

We come from different families.

We come from different parents.

Because work is a lot of time.

And I have a ton of friends that are the

If you let it go by, it's your whole life.

kids of first generation immigrants or the first generation immigrants themselves.

If you literally do the math, it's most of the hours in your life for most of us.

And I always ask that question when I'm talking to someone about this stuff, because I think if your parents like moved across the world to take care of you and, you know, often they taught you that like you just got to earn money, like you got to like be on this treadmill for, you know, and that that is the purpose of work and no one cares about how you feel.

And

to do that and be miserable or anxious or, you know, all those feelings, like for most of your life, like how can it not affect your health?

Like we now have so much data that says that it does.

And I think that the question of safety and what's going to make you feel safe, like that's wildly different for everyone.

And that programming can be very hard to shed, you know.

Like I don't, that's not a prescriptive thing.

Like how, when will you feel safe?

That's not like, oh, you hit this net worth and everyone feels safe.

Is there a world in which you'll ever feel safe?

Like, no, it's like,

You got to have an answer to what enough is and when you'll feel safe enough to take a risk or to demand happiness, you know, to demand that you should love at least most of your work.

you hit this dollar amount per month.