Mona Delahooke
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381 appearances
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first heard Apr 2019
last heard Apr 2019
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my book and in in DIR it's this it's a staple are individual differences.
And every single individual, child or adult, all of us, will have triggers and causes to our behaviors that float uh during during the day.
But there are certain categories of kids who
Will be less able to organically control their emotions or behaviors.
by no fault of their own.
And some of these kids are our differently wired kids.
when your brain is wired differently and you perceive the world differently, literally differently through your senses, because that's how all human beings experience life is through all of our sensory systems and through movement.
Sometimes the ability for
intention what we call intentional control of our of our behaviors and emotions.
is challenged and
In that case, we we all need to have in my mind
We need to understand that in that moment the child isn't choosing to misbehave, the child may be under stress or even suffering.
So the answer to your question is yes.
The expectation we have an expectation that just because a child can talk or symbolize what they're feeling through uh typing.
or art or um just because they can control their behavior some of the time that we think they should be able to do that and tell us what's on their mind all of the time.
And that is a critical expectation gap.
It's not only for pre schoolers, it's up through high school and beyond.
um the ability to locate a sensation or a feeling or a thought and give it words and then get help or seek help from either a strategy or from others.
Many, many adults don't have that ability.
So we uh it takes a long time to develop.
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