Mona Delahooke
speaker
381 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Apr 2019
last heard Apr 2019
Mona Delahooke’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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you will notice the expression on the face literally changes.
There could be anger, disgust disgust, there could be a frown, a a clenched jaw, a forced smile.
Um and all of a sudden the child might want to move.
They maybe have impulsive movements.
They may be shoving or pushing or hitting or saying things that are really mean or threatening.
And uh in the eyes and the body and the voice we see these specific behaviors.
And it's there too many for me to name off right now, but as parents, we can begin to categorize what pathway our child is in.
If they're heading towards red or if they're in red.
then we know that asking them to control their behaviors, punishing them, or even trying to verbally um logic this thing out.
is not gonna work very well.
And we have to go to our strategies instead of going towards judgment, we go towards compassion and thinking, Oh
This child is suffering right now.
This child may be having a s a stress response right now.
And that's why they just threw the iPad on the ground.
So uh and then there's there's also shutting down.
Um there's the blue pathway and that's where we lose c we lose contact.
A child will just move away, they will disconnect, they won't wanna talk, their face will be very flat, eyes will look down, um, they will s appear to be sad and their movements will start to slow down.
Those are children who are in a very that's actually a more serious um
position than than actively disruptive behaviors which are
A signal should be a signal to the adults around the child that the child needs help rather than that the child needs more punishment or discipline.
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