Monique Marvez

Well, thank you, because going a step further than that, again, I consider myself very girly.

I'm like a girly girl.

I consider myself to be very feminine and girlish.

And and to me, strong is one of those things that I don't take it as a positive.

When people say you're a strong woman, I just want to be a woman.

Well, my dad always taught me in a completely non-sexist way.

My dad said, Monique, defer to the bigger brain.

He said, 90% of the time, you're going to be the smartest person.

Of course, he was my dad.

You're going to be the smartest person in the room.

But that 10% celebrate when there's somebody that can teach you something and there's something to be had in the relationship.

Defer to the bigger brain.

And I always I'm very happy when I'm around somebody like it's funny because you say that makes because, again, it's not a dude thing, but men are.

Dr. Drew, I think, would support me.

Men identify more with their work, their job, their income, their field of expertise insofar as professionalism.

So, OK, so for a man to say, I'd like a woman to make 10 percent of what I make, you know, that's that's.

Very cool.

And for me as a woman, I would love to be with my equal intellectually.

Like it's not even about money.

If somebody and I can sit and discuss things and there's not dead air where I hit a patch of I just said something and you have no idea 50 percent of the time.