Najwa Zebian
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472 appearances
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1 series
first heard Dec 2025
last heard 20 Dec
Najwa Zebian’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Yes, exactly.
You know that if you say it now, you have to do something about it.
just like with that cycle we just went over, you know that if you choose the other option, which is to not accept this bad treatment and to not go down the road of the judgment and the shame and making excuses and whatever, the other option is that you say this is over.
And so when it's over, everything kind of comes out in the open and it's this big messy thing that you don't want to deal with.
When we are secretive, we don't tell the people that we love about a toxic relationship that we're in.
Again, you need to be compassionate with yourself.
Don't judge yourself for staying quiet or for covering up for that person.
You're doing it to protect yourself because there is a fear somewhere that if this relationship doesn't exist, that something's wrong with you.
Or if it comes to light that you went through this relationship, you're going to be judged for being not as strong as others would have hoped you were.
If you find yourself being secretive after you give yourself that dose of self-compassion, just remember that there is someone in your life who cares enough to listen to you and sit with you in your pain.
That's another reason actually why we don't end those relationships because we know that once we end them, there's going to be grief.
Grief is heavy.
Because you're not only grieving the relationship you thought you had.
You're not only grieving who you thought they were.
You are grieving past versions of you that sat through awful treatment and were quiet when you know that who you really are is someone who speaks up.
You are grieving...
That little girl that you were... Now I'm getting emotional.
You're grieving that little girl that you were who started believing that she didn't deserve love or that being spoken to in a toxic or manipulative or putting you down kind of way is something that she deserves.
You're grieving...
who she was then and the way that she looked up to you waiting for you to save her.
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