Najwa Zebian
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472 appearances
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1 series
first heard Dec 2025
last heard 20 Dec
Najwa Zebian’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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I don't need to deal with it.
But you understand that the reason you ended up in a relationship like this is because you didn't deal with this.
And so part of moving on from a romantic partner could also be moving on from the toxic family dynamics that you had, breaking those trauma bonds.
If you had a parent, a mom, a dad who constantly spoke down to you and constantly made you feel like you needed to do more to earn their love and constantly spoke to you in a way where
something was wrong with you unless you followed their rules and you ended up with someone like that, when you are thinking of leaving that person, that's a great time for you to think of this bond that you have
with that parent of yours.
Go to your relationship with your family and address it or end it or start setting boundaries to empower yourself to leave or address or set boundaries in this relationship.
Because our attachment wounds, our abandonment wounds come from our family.
They come from our childhoods.
That's the root of the issue.
So it's not, this relationship didn't come about out of nowhere.
This dynamic didn't come about out of nowhere.
There was something that made the ground fertile for it to be toxic and made the ground fertile for you to accept that toxicity.
There's one thing I say in The Only Constant, don't negotiate your change with people who want you to stay the same.
If this relationship you're you're planning on leaving, if the people who come to mind are your parents and what they are going to think, they're going to judge you.
They're going to this.
They're going to that.
They're going to tell you, you know, people in our family don't get divorced or whatever the message that you're going to get is or people in our family don't don't go through something like that, like just hush hush about it.
You don't negotiate your change, the thing that you want to do, the leaving, the ending, the going out and dating other people with them if they want you to stay who you are, if this version of you actually serves something for them.
Word up, my ladies.
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