Natalie Norman

If you come to my party with a cake I don't like, you're uninvited.

Thank you for having me.

I don't know what, do you see what stalking?

This is actually like I think a debate on a different level on Instagram because as you can imagine me as a woman, I love –

people talking about relationships and there's a very like strong narrative of women being like if he likes a girl's instagram photo that's cheating and i feel like this is the same vein yeah and i'm like i'm like i don't understand can can your partner not go out in the world like it do you think your partner if your partner like doesn't interact with someone hot do you think they still don't think they're hot like like where is the line here

No, that's not a partner.

Like, who wants to live in that state?

And I think it's like this idea that it comes from this idea that, you know, your partner's in love with you.

They should find no one else attractive, like this mythical.

Exactly.

And as your partner, like I never like the like the picture one is so it's such a minuscule.

It's like, how do you even know your partner's liking other people's pictures?

Can you like I can't imagine like you go to the office and you have like your type there and like your partner's mad at you.

What are you supposed to do?

Get them fired?

On the counterpoint, I do like it when a partner gets a little jealous, like a little bit, like a little bit.

And you use that to make more hotness in your relationships.

Well, I think a lot of people like their partner to be a little jealous because it shows that your partner is still attracted to you.

And it's like this idea that they like want you.

It's feeling desired.