Natasha Cornstein
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first heard Feb 2025
last heard Feb 2025
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It was on the phone all the time. Exactly. And we really talked and listened and nothing was right. Nothing was curated. And I think it's a lot of pressure right now. And I think people just reject each other really quickly or are looking for somebody this that doesn't exist, you know?
I absolutely agree. I'm the mother of a son, so I'm flipping the question a little bit, but I would 100% speak up. I mean, I think that, you know, ultimately it's our children's choice of who they're going to marry. And you never want to cross the line where then their future spouse hates you. They hate you anyway. No, no.
I'm happy to hear that that's a changing trend because the majority of people I know have strained relationships. And I think that's very unfortunate. And you have to know that these are the people that raised the person that you fell in love with.
That's and start early. I mean, I made it very clear to our son. I mean, I think maybe starting at age five, you know, about what our expectations were. You know, it's very personal. It's very important to us that our son married were Jewish. And we it's very important to us that he marries someone Jewish. And he knows that and understands that. And I think that you model
relationship for your son especially I have an only child my husband is an only child and I hope that my son sees and he has seen for 19 years the love I have for my mother-in-law and vice versa And I hope that I am paying it forward. Right. And my son doesn't get taken away.
So that might be a sign you need to do a different kind of manicure.
I totally agree.
We do not. And I will tell you, because we're looking to create convenience, you know, all under one roof. I looked at it a few years ago before the pandemic, found a great partner, prepared, tested it, and we weren't good at it. It's a completely different personnel, different inventory. And so, I'm a big believer in you try it. If it works, you continue it. If it doesn't, you turn the page.
Can I expand on that? Okay. I did not call my husband, initiate a call for the first three months of our seven month courtship. And I know young women today don't like to hear this, but men like to hunt. That's correct. A hundred percent. My mom told me that when I started dating, she said, don't be so available. Men don't like it. That's right. Takes the mystery away. That's exactly right.
And by the way, I'm married 23 years. You still have to have a little mystery. Yes, exactly. Have it all hang out. You have to have discovery all the time. How do you do that? She's not going to give out all her secrets. I won't give out all my secrets. Just not overshare. No, we share everything. But there are also things that can be private. You don't have to always give the nitty gritty. Right.
She doesn't have to know if she's waxing her legs. That was exactly. I don't want to know what he's doing and I don't want him to know what I'm doing.
but I know this couple had sex on their first date and they got married that's right to me that is a huge exception right and I would strongly recommend let the other person whoever that person is initiate I agree I think three months is is of never being the one to text first I don't know if that would happen now Maybe not. I don't think so. I don't think it would. I don't think so.
But there's, you know, again, there's so much pressure.
And I see them. They swipe so fast. You know, you might be missing the greatest guy in the world. Exactly.
I mean, I would say setup, but I'm not in the world of dating right now. Like if your son went on a dating app, you would think... I can't imagine my son on a dating app, but again, we'll see. He has so many friends and he's so social and... I think there's something very special about maybe it's his age group, sort of the next age group coming up very, but I would definitely say setup.
Look, I'm so out of the loop on this. I hear and I watch. And so maybe it's not. I mean, I think theoretically it's wonderful. You can meet and discover. But I think it's how they're being used. Yes. You know, this reject, reject, reject because they didn't have dark hair. They weren't tall enough or they weren't this. I agree.
You know, when I was in my 20s, if I was asked out on a date or set up, I went. Yeah.
I think it's different. It's also interesting for mature people. Oh, I think it's very good for mature people. I don't know for your audience, but if you become a widower or a widow, I know several people that have met online.
Absolutely not. What is the incentive to propose if you're already living together?
Absolutely.
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