Neil Brown
speaker
575 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Nov 2016
last heard Aug 2017
Neil Brown’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Someone has to know what you're doing.
Your kid is not going to say to you, wow, mom, that was a
fabulous limit you just set with me.
I can't believe it.
You didn't hurt my feelings.
And I feel motivated to do the thing that you just are making me do.
That's amazing.
That's not going to happen, right?
So we need that from an outside source.
So if you have a partner, if you're married or coupled, then that's a great source.
If it's not happening there, then that's worth a conversation or two or three.
And otherwise, you need to have other sources for that.
Yeah.
Friends, neighbors, a parenting group, an online group, something you need to be connected to other parents that know what it's like, can relate to what you're feeling, can acknowledge what you're doing well, and can offer constructive advice, new ideas.
Yeah, I think both of those things are true.
One is make sure that you understand that that is what's going on with your kids so you just don't feel like you're doing something wrong, that this is a challenge that your kid's going to have to grow through and learn about.
So the idea is that emotionally dysregulated kids have to learn emotional regulation.
It is going to happen over time.
We're not going to get it in
one set of parental interventions.
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