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Nick Pollard

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

I think so. The other thing I tend to say is that when somebody shows you who they are, just believe them. Oh, that's great. It's really simple. If somebody shows you who they are, believe them. It's the easiest way to negate narcissism. If somebody shows up and we talk a lot in the personal growth world, or not even personal growth, but just TikTok and Instagram and all the places that I've

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

I think so. The other thing I tend to say is that when somebody shows you who they are, just believe them. Oh, that's great. It's really simple. If somebody shows you who they are, believe them. It's the easiest way to negate narcissism. If somebody shows up and we talk a lot in the personal growth world, or not even personal growth, but just TikTok and Instagram and all the places that I've

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

you know, Meyer, myself, um, tend to get all the red flag commentary, right? Well, this is a red flag and that's a red flag. I'll tell you what a real red flag is. The fact that you ignore red flags.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

you know, Meyer, myself, um, tend to get all the red flag commentary, right? Well, this is a red flag and that's a red flag. I'll tell you what a real red flag is. The fact that you ignore red flags.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

you know, Meyer, myself, um, tend to get all the red flag commentary, right? Well, this is a red flag and that's a red flag. I'll tell you what a real red flag is. The fact that you ignore red flags.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

And if you are boundaried enough, if you understand your bill of rights, if you understand who you are, then when somebody shows up in the world that violates that, despite how manipulative they can be, or whether they have narcissistic person, personality disorder, or whether, you know, they're, they have sociopathy or whatever, it's, um, You won't tolerate it.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

And if you are boundaried enough, if you understand your bill of rights, if you understand who you are, then when somebody shows up in the world that violates that, despite how manipulative they can be, or whether they have narcissistic person, personality disorder, or whether, you know, they're, they have sociopathy or whatever, it's, um, You won't tolerate it.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

And if you are boundaried enough, if you understand your bill of rights, if you understand who you are, then when somebody shows up in the world that violates that, despite how manipulative they can be, or whether they have narcissistic person, personality disorder, or whether, you know, they're, they have sociopathy or whatever, it's, um, You won't tolerate it.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

And so, yeah, I do agree with that statement. I agree with that a lot. I just think there's โ€“ go ahead.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

And so, yeah, I do agree with that statement. I agree with that a lot. I just think there's โ€“ go ahead.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

And so, yeah, I do agree with that statement. I agree with that a lot. I just think there's โ€“ go ahead.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

but I've got an alarm for everything.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

but I've got an alarm for everything.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

but I've got an alarm for everything.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

So I do that in a, in a variety of ways. Um, I hesitate to answer it because there's so many prescriptive ways of living these days that everybody's telling me I have to be up at four in the morning and I've got to bathe my nuts in olive oil and then I've got to sun my asshole and then I've got to get into an ice bath. And then after that, I have to get into a sauna.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

So I do that in a, in a variety of ways. Um, I hesitate to answer it because there's so many prescriptive ways of living these days that everybody's telling me I have to be up at four in the morning and I've got to bathe my nuts in olive oil and then I've got to sun my asshole and then I've got to get into an ice bath. And then after that, I have to get into a sauna.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

So I do that in a, in a variety of ways. Um, I hesitate to answer it because there's so many prescriptive ways of living these days that everybody's telling me I have to be up at four in the morning and I've got to bathe my nuts in olive oil and then I've got to sun my asshole and then I've got to get into an ice bath. And then after that, I have to get into a sauna.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

I've got to go to a sauna after this. And then once I do that, then I can start my day. But I think put it somewhere you see it. Um, one of the things I do with people is just say, take your top three that you want to make sure you focus on, put them on a business card, like go get a blank business card, put it on that business card, handwrite it, then take it and laminate it.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

I've got to go to a sauna after this. And then once I do that, then I can start my day. But I think put it somewhere you see it. Um, one of the things I do with people is just say, take your top three that you want to make sure you focus on, put them on a business card, like go get a blank business card, put it on that business card, handwrite it, then take it and laminate it.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

I've got to go to a sauna after this. And then once I do that, then I can start my day. But I think put it somewhere you see it. Um, one of the things I do with people is just say, take your top three that you want to make sure you focus on, put them on a business card, like go get a blank business card, put it on that business card, handwrite it, then take it and laminate it.