Nicole Lappin
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4,192 appearances
114 recordings
2 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard 9 Dec
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But it's amazing that you know where that comes from. Like you have some clear financial trauma.
Did your parents get divorced? Oh, yeah.
Wow. It sounds like you recognized early on some of the patterns though, that you were seeing in yourself that you picked up from him. Is there anything you have to stop yourself? If you're noticing that you're trying to keep up, this is probably- Keep up with the Joneses. Keep up the Kardashians, keep up with whoever, that idea that you might have inherited from him.
Do you notice him in some of your financial habits now?
Because it's not ultimately what you make. It's what you keep.
Yeah, or invest more. And it's not even below your means. The adage is live within your means.
If you live within your means, you're spending all of it. You have to actually live below your means.
It's hard. It's so hard, especially with kids. It's actually funny because that's advice that you give kids as they're learning about money. You have a share, spend, save account. So those three buckets.
But it's true. As you're thinking about kids, like they're watching you. Yes. Everything you do.
Whether you spend, whether you save, I mean, look, you saw it with your dad.
It's hard to, it's hard to go from a hundred to five.
It's crazy to ask kids how much things cost or like start teaching them just directionally, like how much a house is or a car or little things at the grocery store.
Also asking kids how old you are is pretty depressing. I would avoid that at all costs. Yeah, I agree. So when you guys have Lori... look at your joint account, do you do it as a set amount or do you do it as a weighted amount?
Yeah, because if you have something more consistent, one way to think about it is to do like yours, mine, and ours. And then if you put a percentage in and it's 50%, like it feels more weighted. If somebody makes a million dollars, 50% is 500 grand. And the other person makes 100 grand, 50% is 50 grand. But it feels like the same sort of weight versus a set dollar amount.
Sometimes can feel different. unfair if somebody is bringing in different amounts of money of course but as you guys are it feels fickle or like jobs come projects come and go have you had to psychologically come to terms with the idea that it could be feast or famine but not that extreme
I feel like even since we last talked, you have started thinking more about not getting squirmish about money. Because when I was on your show, you guys were a little weird about it.
It was pre-baby.
that's all you can do that's all you can do it sounds like you've opened up these conversations not only about your current finances but your future finances and what that looks like and goals have price tags and planning for that did you revisit the prenup conversation we haven't we have not i think we blacked it out hold on to your wallets money rehab will be right back
I'm happy to help, too. Yes, we can reach out to you. You, me, Laurie, Brian, party.
You said when I was on the show that something about it gave you a vibe of distrust.
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