Nicole Stanley

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Becoming The Wealthy You | How to Save Money, Stop Overspending, Get Out of Debt, Budgeting & Personal Finance for Women · 160. Financial Anxiety is Real - And Extreme Frugality Isn't the Fix with Nicole Stanley · 20 Jan 2026 podcast

It's like, let's go to Paris.

So I find, I know the cheapest flight to Paris.

Like I had done it all right.

I budgeted out.

I had the money all there.

I had saved for it and I hit purchase on my tickets and I had an anxiety attack.

And I called a friend and I remember saying, I just can't like, this is so wasteful.

Why am I doing this?

Right.

And I went into this whole head shame thing.

And I look back at that and I'm like, that's toxic frugality.

Because when we get into this mode that spending is bad, it doesn't actually matter what financial goals you hit because you've committed to a deeply unhappy relationship with money.

I can't enjoy my money.

And that in itself is a overreaction.

kind of pendulum swing.

And so one of the things we focus on in our coaching is when someone is paying off debt, we wanna make sure that they don't swing there.

The relationship you have with money doesn't change

when you hit certain financial milestones.

And I feel that I've seen that clearly with clients.

I've seen it clearly in my life, which is why your relationship with money, whether you have debt today, whether you have savings, whether you have investments, is the most powerful thing you have in your financial goals.

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