Pastor Cal
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
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Oh yeah, oh yeah, absolutely, absolutely.
You do the east and west thing, you do that.
But no, you never surrender.
You take a break, that's fine.
Go to opposite sides, that's cool.
But you never surrender.
And the only other thing I could think of is, and Dr. Pepper taught me this, is the power of touch.
When you're your angriest, force yourself.
to touch your partner, even though they may not want it, but somewhere way down in your psyche, you really do want it.
But you're just like, no, don't touch me.
But you touch anyway.
And like, okay.
So it's like, force yourself to touch.
Because when you do that, you start breaking down barriers, you're creating closeness.
And it might be weird, it might be awkward, but just force yourself to do that.
And it helps so much.
So that's another thing.
No couches.
Couches are for sitting and watching TV.
Not, no, no, no, no.