Paul C. Brunson

Dr. Amir Levine, your book, Secure, you have said something that is going to drive relationship experts mad.

That relationships don't need .

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So now you said a secure love is an open love, right?

And I think this does lead to, I think, one of the hottest takes in the book.

You have said something that is going to drive relationship experts mad in this book, right?

And you know what this is?

What is it?

Oh, yeah.

Well, actually, which... Well, let me... I'll go to mine.

Okay, okay.

that relationships don't need boundaries?

Right.

Because the way that you phrased it to me sounded like an ultimatum.

If you can't meet this need, I'm done, or there's this consequence, versus this is my standard, this is what I require.

So for example, let's say we're in a marriage.

We need to have date night every week in order for me to feel connected to you.