Paul C. Brunson

I want you to tell me three things I did this week that made you feel loved.

Three things.

And if I'm brave, tell me three things that I could have done better in my connection with you this week.

Or if we want to have fun, tell me three things I did this week that made you want to have sex with me.

Tell me three things that turned you on.

Three moments where you were like, I want some of this.

This is nice.

I'm liking him right now.

Oh my God, do I want to know.

Yes.

Like do I want, and by the way, how much fun would it be?

How much fun would it be to hear that?

And I have to tell you, you'd be shocked sometimes at the answers.

Like, because I know what I'm trying to do to make you feel loved, but the things that actually make someone feel loved, sometimes it's totally different than me.

Completely shocked.

And now here's the thing.

People's pushback on that is, well, you know, like it feels like that would be like a, like it's now it's another thing to do.

You don't have 10 minutes a week to do that?

It's a great question.

So what you're really asking is if I.