Paul Eastwick

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1,562 appearances 7 recordings 3 series first heard Feb 2026 last heard 24 May

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So anyway, there's a lot of ways it can happen.

But when I advocate for people dating in friend groups, there are a couple important wrinkles there.

One is that at least for heterosexuals, it's important that those be like mixed gender groups.

And it's not just because like it's a popularity thing.

It's because what's often going to happen is that the women in that group, it's not that you're going to date them.

It's that they're going to advocate for you.

they're going to get to know you and then they're going to advocate for you to like their friends or like their friends of friends.

Like sometimes the connections can be a little distant.

But that's why you like start with the mixed friend group and then things go out from there.

I don't know when was the last time you watched the movie Four Weddings and a Funeral.

Yeah.

But that's exactly what's happening in that movie.

There's this core group of mixed gender friends.

They're not exactly dating each other, but they are like branching.

And as they branch, it's like people get pulled together.

I think it's really a perfect demonstration of this idea.

I think a lot of times what people are doing, yeah, there's a tendency to look at hookup culture and be like, oh, this is terrible.

But I think a lot of times, again, when it's perfectly consensual, this is people working it out, trying to work out how they feel about each other.

Oftentimes, people don't know how they feel.

They hook up.

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