Petra Bagust

And here you didn't fit in because you don't fit in everywhere and that's okay.

You don't need to fit in everywhere.

That's so lovely to hear.

Thank you.

Yeah don't you think vulnerability is this unbelievable power that women have like I just adore that you share so viscerally and so authentically and I love it and it is a risk like you go I took a big deep breath before we released the episode I'm like okay P you going there and I'm like yep I'm gonna go there.

We'll just keep looking.

We'll just take turns, get to the center.

Yeah.

And I do appreciate what you're saying too about sex.

Losing your libido is a really confronting thing as a person.

If you just are like, I just don't desire it anymore and this is a hormonal change you're going through or it hurts to have sex or it's uncomfortable.

At worst, it's really painful.

But even if it's just uncomfortable, you're like, well, that's not so joyous.

It's not really pleasurable.

Those things are hard to talk about because...

You know, you can make little remarks about positive sex life stories or you can moan about somebody else.

Like, oh, there are certain socially acceptable kind of tropes that we get into or stuck into, I think, sometimes.

But to talk about yourself and your own intimate life and the struggles you might be having, that is hard.

It's really hard.

Yes, or an orchid.