Phoebe Gavin
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205 appearances
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first heard Jan 2026
last heard 15 Jan
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Like, what does this mean about me that I'm never actually good enough for the offer?
And we had to work really hard to help her reframe that these are things that are actually is actually the opposite.
It means the opposite thing.
The fact that you have gotten this many interviews and you've gotten this far means that you're actually applying for the right job.
and you are qualified for them, we happen to be in a difficult market where there are a lot of people who are also competing for those same roles.
That doesn't mean that you're not good enough.
If you weren't, air quotes, good enough, you wouldn't be getting those callbacks at all.
And we would be looking for ways to change the way that you're showing up to the job market or changing some of your job targets.
Like you're doing everything right.
Especially women, people of color, neurodiverse people.
The more marginalized identities you occupy, the less likely you are to have a significant experience or comfort level with pushing your own narrative about how great you are, even if you're really, really, really great.
I mean, there is an answer to that question.
And there's two answers to it.
First is that you practice not thinking about that.
If you find that your inner critic has decided that today's narrative is going to be that you're not good enough, then practicing very intentionally saying, this is not how I want to see myself.
This is not how I want to think about myself.
I have value.
I am valuable.
really actively in your brain challenging those thoughts is a way of training your, literally training your brain to think differently.
The first few times you do it, it's going to feel ridiculous and it's not going to work.
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